Kiss.

The Tale of the Frog and the Kiss: A Practical Guide

Once upon a time, deep in the enchanted forest, there was a princess who filled her days with adventure and dreams of faraway lands. One bright afternoon, as the sun danced on the water of an ancient fountain, she lost her golden ball in the deep, still water. Just when she thought all was lost, a soft croak sounded. There it was—a green, shining frog with golden eyes who promised to help her if he would receive a kiss.

Although the princess had experienced a thousand adventures, she had never been so nervous as at that moment. Because how do you actually hold a frog without it jumping away before you kiss it? A question that is rarely discussed in fairy tales, but that anyone with a portion of common sense would ask.

Step 1: Make the frog comfortable

Just like people, frogs like to feel safe. It is important that you remain calm and do not make any sudden movements. Slide your hand slowly under its belly and support it well. This prevents it from feeling threatened and thrashing around. Remember that a frog is vulnerable and needs your gentle hands.

Step 2: Don't be afraid of the slippery feeling

Yes, a frog feels wet and cold. But that is its natural state and nothing to worry about. Think of it as a precious little secret of the forest. Comfort yourself with the thought that this will take some getting used to, like the first chapter of a book that you have to dive into before you really understand the story.

Step 3: The ideal kissing moments

A kiss doesn’t always have to be full of bravado. The art of the fairytale kiss is in the timing. When he’s sitting still and his big frog eyes are blinking slowly, that’s the perfect moment. Hold him at eye level so you can lock eyes, then gently press your lips to his head.

And don't forget: it's just a kiss, not a spell you can send—whatever happens, you did your part.

Step 4: The Transformation (or Not)

After you have performed your brave deed, you might expect a dramatic flash of light and a handsome prince to appear. But he might just stay a frog. Or he might change without you realizing it. Sometimes fairy tales reveal their secrets when you least expect them. You might hear a soft whisper on the wind, a reminder of courage, or a smile that unexpectedly appears on your face.

The moral of the story

Whether the frog turns into a prince or not doesn’t really matter. Sometimes the real magic isn’t the other person’s transformation, it’s your own—how you grow by daring to face the unknown and opening yourself up to miracles.

So if you ever meet a frog at a fountain and he asks for a kiss, don't ask yourself whether he will change, but whether you dare to change.

What happens next will forever remain a little mystery in the forest of your life.

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